The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (NSPL) notes that asking at-risk individuals if they are suicidal does not increase suicidal thoughts or the occurrence of suicide. Acknowledging and talking about suicide may in fact reduce suicidal ideation. Below are five action steps you can use with a family member, friend, roommate, or co-worker who may be having suicidal thoughts.
- ASK: Ask if the person is thinking about suicide. Listen without judgment and show you care.
- BE THERE: Stay with the person, or make sure they are in a private secure place with another caring person, until you can get help.
- KEEP THEM SAFE: Remove any objects that could be used in a suicide attempt.
- HELP THEM CONNECT: Explore resources and work together on developing a safety plan and list of individuals they can contact if a crisis occurs.
- FOLLOW UP: Continue to check in with the person. Leave messages, send texts, or set a time to call again and “check in”. This type of contact shows support and can increase their feelings of connectedness.
IMPORTANT: If you or someone you know is having thoughts of suicide, call/text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 or dial 1-800-273-TALK (8255). If there is danger of self-harm, call 911.